A Frugal Engagement

It is possible to get engaged without spending a lot of money.  Being the frugal person I am I didn’t want to spend a lot of money on getting engaged.  The only money you really need to spend on getting engaged is the purchase of a ring.

In my case I proposed before I had a ring and we picked out our rings together on Amazon.  They didn’t cost much and I was able to mostly pay for them using gift cards I had purchased with Swag Bucks.   It is a lot easier to buy your rings for a reasonable price if you do not buy diamonds.  Besides the cost there are plenty of other reasons why you should not buy diamonds.

Even a tight fisted miser like me wants to be romantic but that doesn’t mean you need to spend a lot of money.  If you can’t come up with romantic proposal ideas that don’t cost a lot of money just Google “romantic proposals” and you will find plenty that can be done on a frugal budget.  My proposal wasn’t very romantic but I did get a do over.  Her engagement ring arrived while she was at work and when we went out to dinner that evening I surprised her by getting down on one knee and proposing.  Even though I had already asked her to marry me before the second proposal was an emotional moment and was much appreciated.

Money should not be an obstacle to getting engaged.  You can get engaged and still be frugal.

The Hazards of Cutting Your Own Hair

I’ve been cutting my own hair for several years. At a conservative estimate of $10 a month for a haircut, I save $120 a year by cutting my own hair. My only cost is a $10 pair of clippers (that I got for free). Being a frugal person I’m always looking at ways to cut my expenses. Before I got my clippers I was getting my hair cut to a short buzz cut anyway so I decided it would be easy to just cut my own hair. I usually just put the 1/2 inch guard on the clippers and buzz away. It doesn’t take any skill and it is pretty difficult to mess up.

Tonight I found a way to mess it up. I forgot to put the guard on before I started cutting my hair. I cut a stripe right down the middle of my head. My mistake was immediately obvious but it was too late, I couldn’t uncut my hair. At that point I had two options, I could either go for a reverse mohawk hairstyle or just cut it all off. I didn’t think I could pull off a reverse mohawk so I cut it all off. Hopefully, I won’t be mistaken for a skinhead while I’m waiting for my hair to grow out. On the plus side I shouldn’t need to cut my hair again for quite a while.

It Must Be Nice

When I talk to people about my current hiking plans they sometimes reply, “It must be nice.” The implication is that I’m lucky to be able to go on a six-month hike. Undoubtedly, I am lucky to be physically and financially able to go on this hike. It isn’t all luck though. Being financially able to take this hike is a result of years of living frugally and saving money. I’ve also avoided debts or other obligations that would keep me from hiking. Too many people think that reaching a goal like this is just luck and is out of their control. If someone wants to take a hike they can do the same things I did. They may decide that the trade-offs aren’t worth it for them but they should realize that they can achieve this goal – it isn’t just luck.

And yeah, it is pretty f—ing nice.

The New Necessities: Less is More

The following is a guest post from personal-finance expert Peter Dunn. He realized that he wanted to deal with money when he was in his sixth-grade math class. The teacher gave the class a stock-market project, and Pete was hooked. Pete hosts a popular radio show, “Skills Your Dad Never Taught You,” on WXNT Indianapolis (News Talk 1430) and appears regularly on FOX News and “Studio B with Shepard Smith.” Pete currently lives in Carmel, Indiana with his wife, Sarah, and his daughter, Olivia.  Pete’s second book, 60 Days to Change: A Daily How-To Guide with Actionable Tips for Improving Your Financial Life, is available in paperback for $14.95, at Amazon.com.

Shelter, utilities, food. For hundreds of years, most people have found these to be necessary expenses and key categories of any budget. They know they must find a way to produce enough income to cover, at a bare minimum, these basics. Yet over time, this group of necessary expenses has continued to grow. And, as you might have guessed, it’s because the word “necessary” is subjective and relative.  This new, behemoth group of expenses is the “New Necessities” and now includes things such as mobile phone service, internet service, and cable or satellite tv. But are your New Necessities—and particularly your New Tech Necessities—keeping you in the red?

Controlling this type of expense is crucial to financial progress. As you hammer out a budget, you don’t necessarily need to scrap that category altogether, though. The most important tip? Make sure your usage matches your subscription plans. In my experience, most people overbuy and underuse these types of subscription plans—whether for mobile phones, internet, or cable/satellite. Here’s how to keep your costs in check: set aside an hour or two and call each one of your service providers to match up your usage with an appropriate plan. Doing this can easily save you hundreds of dollars per year.

Redefining your New Necessities requires taking a hard look at what you think you need but without which you can still survive and thrive. The fundamental questions to ask as you’re redefining are, “How much do I spend on this? And where can I cut back?” Do you really need the fastest Internet service available? What about those 400 satellite tv channels? You might not think eliminating or scaling back on services could save you that much—but once you start saving with a goal in mind, you’ve got a very powerful motivating force. With what you save by cutting your New Necessities list down to manageable size, you can contribute to your emergency fund, save for a vacation, or even sock away for college funds or retirement. It’s your decision: a year of the Handyman Channel—or a fund to someday start that handyman business you’ve always known you wanted to? Take a good, hard look at your monthly budget—and see where there’s room to save by dialing down.

What are your New Necessities? Where could you cut back if you had to—and what would you save for?